Salt and Light: Apply to Clothing (Modesty)

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Salt and Light: Apply to Clothing (Modesty)

By: Rachel Dahl

I thought I’d talk about clothing within the church today. Since I assume that a good number of you are Christians reading this, I feel the need to address this very issue—sadly, it has been an issue. I’m sure that you recall that we are called to be the “salt and light” of the earth, which means we are to be set apart from sin and from the world. From what I have been seeing, it seems like a lot of us do not look at all different from the rest of the world.

What I really mean by this is that we dress like everyone else does, we see the same kinds of movies and TV shows without filter, talk the same gossipy talk, walk the same catwalk, etc. I don’t really see any harm in indulging in a lot of secular things—don’t get me wrong! I love my rock music, art films, and French coutouriers as long, as they don’t incite lustful thoughts for my husband or me. However, we should know our boundaries. We can still be part of this world but not of it, according to John 17 and Romans 12:2.

They are not of the world, even as I am not of it. -John 17:16

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing, and perfect will. -Romans 12:2

I think the problem with a lot of churches now is that we tend to want to adapt to our surroundings to be more inviting to others—this to a fault. To an extent, this is okay. We do need to be inviting. When a church becomes too gimmicky and hip while watering down the message, presumably to “dumb it down” for people they assume would not get the Bible, it is an example of giving in to the world. God’s Word should be straightforward enough for people to understand. This is something that we need to trust Him to take care of.

As far as clothing goes in church, I believe that we women should not be wearing the blouse with the plunging neckline, the mini skirt, or the tight jeans that most every other woman we come across is wearing. Christian men, including pastors and husbands, have confessed about lusting after women, both single and married, in their church. It is true that lust can be triggered by anything regardless of clothing, but there are some types of clothing that invoke this much stronger than others and as a direct cause right then and there. We can assume that men are trying their best to not lust after us, but we have the other half of the equation to think about, which is to try to help them (and ourselves, really) to not think of us (ourselves) as objects of lust. Lust isn’t admiration. It’s far more dangerous than that. It ruins lives and marriages, and it can start for a man from just seeing an inappropriately dressed woman in church and perhaps lead up to his seeking out and viewing pornography. Again, it’s a 2-way street. The man can call upon God and the power of Christ to renew his mind after seeing something that entices him, but the initial thought was presented by a care-free (careless?) christian woman.

If lust were admiration, then lust would care about or respect the person it is admiring. Lust, however, isn’t like that at all. It selfishly partakes of whatever is available then moves on to another (usually more desirable or intense) object of lust. What kind of relationship would it be if lust were the basis of attraction? Temporary and fake.

Most of the things that I write about here are related to personal experience. I was not always a believer in modesty’s importance to the Christian faith. In fact, I walked the catwalk and even talked the gossipy talk just like every other woman in the world, and the main difference was that I believed in Jesus Christ. I was off to a good start. Jesus is the central message behind Christianity. However, I didn’t realize how much my clothing was a stumbling block to people who wanted to believe in Jesus or who already believed in Him. I came to realize that my clothes and some of the other girls’ clothes were distracting men from being pure in thought and serving God with a clean mind and spirit. The other girls in church and I were not helping these men with purity and doing our part of concealing our cleavage and thighs. I had to put God first and go against my natural inclination to dress to attract without any real boundaries.

I know it’s not fun to talk about reality sometimes, but not one good thing ever really happens when we wear clothing that doesn’t conceal sexually enticing areas. Clothing like that makes us feel good, but so does sin.However, modest clothing doesn’t have to be boring and awkward. I really hated and still hate unflattering clothing, but modest clothing can be attractive (though not necessarily designed to attract/distract) without being sexual. Some of the stuff I have on my blog includes photos of what some other girls and I look up to wear that might hopefully give you some inspiration.

If our God is the God of all beauty and creation, then why do you think you have to be frumpy to be modest?


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4 thoughts on “Salt and Light: Apply to Clothing (Modesty)

  1. You have made some very important points Rachel. As women of God, we are called to be set apart. Looking like the “world” does not do that. Thank you for writing this great article!

  2. Rachel, Bravo to you for bringing up such an important taboo. I’m delighted to hear your heart on this topic. I had to grow in this area as a new college graduate years ago. God has brought me to a place where I no longer cover myself up to avoid being a stumbling block, I truly do love and feel more comfortable being modest. As a mother to a daughter, I see this topic much differently now than when I was younger. Thank you!

  3. This is such a well thought out and beautifully spoken Post !
    I Posted about this exact verse in Romans today too !!!
    I wrote it in a different stance that we often listen to the World and do what it tells us to be instead of God tells us to be .
    God says ” do not be conformed ” That looks different to a lot of people. Many have had pressures to be rich or skinny when God says” I want you to be a prayer warrior & a faithful wife . ”
    We should BE. what God is calling us to BE- not the World .
    Thank you Rachel for this wonderful reminder 🙂
    Romans 12:2
    King James Version (KJV)

    2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

  4. I agree that there are churches sugar coating the word of God and not telling the people the truth about modesty. A lot of churches tell people to dress modestly but never tell them why. Ministers should use the word of God to explain modesty to their congregants. Let them know that modest is not just about clothing but behavior and words. Show them scriptures like 1 Timothy 2:8-10, Ephesians 2:10, Romans 6, Romans 8, and James 1: 21-27 just to name a few that talk about our behavior, good works, being free from sin, and our speech. Showing them and teaching them what these scriptures mean would help them in their walk of modest and Godly living.

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